Marriage can be such a beautiful thing, it could be your greatest dream or your worst nightmare. Almost every girl dreams of her perfect wedding when it comes, but no one tell them they could get through divorces and may be married multiple times. It is such a goal now to tie the knot and actually stay married for years, and that would mean stay and grow old together.
Unfortunately, not everyone can actually have their own happily ever after when it comes to marriage, which is why you should watch out for the signs that your marriage might actually be over.
Bear in mind that just because you have been experiencing one or two of these signs doesn’t mean you need to get a divorce. Most older couples say that if something is broken then fix it, but if it is something that can no longer fix, then it is time to let it go.
Marriage is a partnership so if both of you know something is not right with you two, try and talk about it or have a marriage counseling. If you both know you have tried everything, then it must be a mutual decision to end it. Then again, since it is a partnership it can end once the other person decides to give up on it.
Non-Stop Arguing
One of the most common signs that you may actually need to watch out for is if you and your spouse just cannot stop arguing. Whether it may be about serious things or just the most minor subject, you two just seem to no longer be on the same page. It could be really tough when you have to live with someone who doesn’t agree with what you want, it could be very difficult to do things and make decisions for the family if the other person wants otherwise.
There are also times when you would argue with your spouse almost every day with the same subject matter. When arguing becomes a daily routine for you and your partner, then it is a big sign that there is a huge problem that needs to be dealt with. The miscommunication leads to misunderstandings that basically creates a fight that would simply make one another unhappy.
You’re No Longer Friends
They say that when you consider your spouse as your best friend, then you two are definitely meant to be. Then again, friends fall apart as well, and when two people who are married starts to become strangers instead of friends, then that is one big sign that your marriage is falling apart. Friends understand each, they are there for each other no matter what.
If you can no longer talk to your partner about any of your problems, if you can no longer hang out with them and have fun, you may want to try and fix it as early as you can. That is because most friends that fall apart may go back as friends but not every couple stay as friends, some are even not civil.
Co-existing Not Living
They say that living a life shared with someone is difficult, but it is worth it if it is living with someone you love. Then again, if the love and care are no longer there, it might end up just be you two co-existing. They say that it is a huge sign that you are not happy with your life if you are just merely existing, living means you are happy and content with where you are, but at the same time have room to grow as a person.
If this isn’t what is happening to you and your spouse, then it is time to change things up. Some couples can fix it by going through memory lane and re-living their happy memories but some just give up.
Different Ideas For The Future
Last but definitely not the least is when you and your spouse are growing apart. This usually happens to a couple who got together early in their lives, like when they were still in their teens. They continue to grow but they are turning into people that are what too different, your spouse may have different aspirations than you, your spouse may have a different outlook in the future and you must not sacrifice either of your dreams for one another since it will just make you two unhappy.